You guys can co parent without actually being together. I'm not sure how he feels about the relationship but if you guys decided that you weren't together but will co parent for the sake of the child then I guess it wouldn't be cheating?

Aw you definitely deserve better than that :/ I'm sorry! He sounds like a jerk!

thank you for your input @aboutellesbabe

@aboutellesbabe, IDK how to talk to him about it bc if I say something I 'have an attitude' n am wrong for voicing my opinion. and I feel the same way about the sneaky part, that's why I needed a second opinion, from an outsider's view.

Would you have to hide it from him? I feel like if you have to be sneaky then you're doing something wrong. But, if it's out in the open then who gives a shit you know? You should stop doing "favors" for your guy if he isn't doing you any in return mama! You should have a talk with him about that!