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Melissa
Melissa
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (37 нед.)

I'm so frustrated with my husbands family. I took my daughter to met his side of the family, all the…

I'm so frustrated with my husbands family. I took my daughter to met his side of the family, all the kids are cousins and related. So off the bat my daughter was the odd one out.

No one told me my daughter was doing anything wrong but apparently they all had an issue with her. My husbands mom says she was acting up but no one said anything to me they say cuz I'm pregnant. I don't understand what that had to do with anything. But today after all this happened they decided to tell my husband. I was so hurt that all they said was mean things about my daughter like they realize we're a packaged deal right?

So I sat down and talked to my daughter what more could I do I can't go back in time and fix anything. No one let me know there was an issue so I could handle it then. But my husband keeps harping on about it and it's making me cry so much that my daughter is crying cuz I'm so upset. It's stressing me out and the baby is causing me to be in pain for the past 7 hours since he brought it up.

My husband seems more upset that his family won't invite us back to things which at this point I don't freaking give a crap. I feel so judged and not accepted. I raised my daughter by myself so I feel them saying anything about her is saying it about me. And I just feel like he doesn't have my back or support me.

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babyreeves

Jennifer Stough

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

She's 7, it's not like she's 15. She on one hand is old enough to know better, but young enough to make honest mistakes, and little girls at that age tend to be very sensitive. They needed to handle that much better than they did and realise she is just a little girl who still very much needs guidance. Not to just be written off.

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ria03

roshon

she is a child and children misbehave not to say she was being as no one said anything right then and there!!! Don't allow yourself to get anymore upset you need to take it easy I'm absolutely sure your daughter was not the only child acting out at this family function...talk to your husband and express how you feel about this whole situation he should be on your side no questions asked also i would talk to his family as well and ask them if they can just make you aware next time they have a ( issue) with your child. Good luck to you and try to take thing's easy!!

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supermommy31082

Meka

Мама двоих (11 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего

she's a dam baby they seem like assholes because normal adults go to the parent and tell what's what did you ask your daughter if what they said was true and my thing why is your husband taking their side your his dam wife that's not cool and baby girl don't let nobody make you feel any type a way about your parenting being a single moms hard and now you have a husband he needs to treat your daughter like she's yours stand up to his Fam and defend you both and if they don't want all at shit cool they bet not expect to come to shit for the new baby

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supermommy31082

Meka

Мама двоих (11 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего

I'm sorry but that made me a little mad

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millymommy

Melissa

Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (37 нед.)

@babyreeves, yes for being adults I feel they handled this poorly. @mom902 my husband should have had my back and I don't know why he cares about being invited back he actually hates doing anything social. I'm trying to relax but I feel so worked up and annoyed that I'm worrying it's gonna start contractions since I'm so close to my due date.

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blessedmommy87

Monica

Omg she's your daughter (little. Kid) they should have told you what was going on like a normal person would! Instead of treating a little girl that way! Sorry you me dealing with stupidity! Why didn't your husband say anything to his family ?

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millymommy

Melissa

Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (37 нед.)

@supermommy31082, I feel mad like I'm not good enough for them. But like until I met my husband I've been a single parent I've taken care of my daughter by myself. I even put her in a private school. And with this new baby I have bought everything myself I have not asked then for a penny my husband has not bought anything for the baby. But they make me feel less then like they are looking down on me. Sorry I'm not a dr or a lawyer like them but I do what I can and I put my kids first so I get very defensive

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babyreeves

Jennifer Stough

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

Just breathe through it momma. Being a single mom is hard, I struggle with my son at 5 years old but when the day ends, I know that I do everything I can to turn him into the little boy that I know he can be. Some days are better than others. When your husband joined your family, he accepted that baby girl as his own and should be protective of the both of you, his family be damned. I wouldn't want to go back to any family events that involve "family" who can't accept my baby, flaws and all, and react positively. They don't need any more judgement or hardships in their little lives, they'll be getting enough of it as is from the strangers around them. Stand strong love.

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ria03

roshon

@millymommy, i understand and your absolutely right he should have your back...i feel like you should let him know that you felt like he left you hanging!! And it's his job to protect and defend you...as for his family they should be a bit smarter being as your due date is right around the coroner and it's your call who you want in the hospital and more importantly in your baby's life!!! It's a very special time for you don't allow anyone to rob you of this beautiful experience this is your time!! Enjoy it

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supermommy31082

Meka

Мама двоих (11 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего

i agree hunny I'm praying for y'all

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millymommy

Melissa

Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (37 нед.)

@babyreeves, @mom902 @supermommy31082 @nevaehsmommy87 thank you all. I was thinking I was crazy but knowing it's not just all in my head I feel mentally better

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blessedmommy87

Monica

@millymommy, 💖

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ria03

roshon

😊

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supermommy31082

Meka

Мама двоих (11 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего

Your welcome momma 😊😊😊😊

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baby26

💕Adriana P 💕

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I hate ppl like that she's a child mama don't stress out about it it's not good for the baby it's hard being a single mom I feel your pain I was treated like that with my ex husband family your a great mom

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