Okay so I need some advice, I'm 18 weeks pregnant and I was living with my boyfriends family before I was pregnant since my mom lived very far away from my school, ever since I got pregnant his mom has been very helpful but a little too consuming and forceful with her ideas.. My mom always had a suspicious thought that's she was going to try and take my baby away from me, of course I didn't think so at the time.. I started to get depressed with being off work from a brain injury from a car accident and since being pregnant made it 100% harder to work. I told them and they wanted me to pretty much tell everyone such as my OB and ect. So I was not comfortable about that because all she would have to do is tell people I wasn't a good mom because of a brain injury and since I was depressed, (bored out of my mind better of a word) my boyfriend completely doesn't believe it and now she is letting her 15yo daughter run around and have sex without being on birth control .. I feel like she just wants another baby so bad she wants one of ours. I ended up confronting her and she threw me out. Now she's trying to make mine and my boyfriends life a living hell since he also will not go back there. Any suggestions?
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Thank you girl that's what I'm thinking she needs to stop being selfish
That's crazy girl! maybe give yourself a little break from all that drama. that's not good for baby. Also I don't know why she's being like that because she is the grandma of the child! I can't wait to have grandchildren. I'd tell her I am taking a break from you for the remaining part of my pregnancy. you can decided if you want to be a part of our lives or not by the actios and decions you make.
I really don't want her into my life but my boyfriend is a very family guy. But I told him if my son were to ever visit them he has to be supervised by one of us or even my mother. I do not trust her especially after kicking me out pregnant she clearly didn't care about his or my well being then so she doesn't deserve to have any rights. She wants control of my baby and us. And I know she wants another baby or even just to be pregnant because she said she wanted to be a sarget, and her husband wouldn't let her obviously
She can't take your baby, as long as you are doing your best for your baby you will be fine. If it's possible to get your own place (if you don't already have one). I know it can be hard, but just because she's family does not mean she needs to be In your life. I made it very clear when I had my son that he was my baby, and no body else would have a say in what I did with him. My mother in law didn't talk to us for two years. She can't mess with you if you don't let her in your life.
Yes I get that, but much more has escalated, like she wants us to live there so badly she's trying to make things much worse for us soon to be parents. It's more or less if she doesn't get her way she will make you miserable another reason why I had to leave I need say in a house me and my baby will be in not worried about being thrown out Everytime I voice my opinion to her ..
she can't take your baby away. unless you're doing something like drinking or drugs. other wise she doesn't have anyway of getting your child. I do think you're overly paranoid and looking at this the wrong way. woman who have had kids will always voice their options to a new and young mom. just because she hasn't put her daughter on bc doesn't mean she wants her to get pregnant. she can't force her daughter to be on bc or to not have sex.
Hang in there :) she might change for the better. Babies tend to do that to you. Just remember you don't owe her anything. She needs to earn your respect back.