HUSBAND RANT: keep scrolling if you don't care.
i apologize its so long.
My heart is literally shattered. I dont know what to do anymore. My husband and I used to be so in love and i mean we still are but we do nothing together now, after our first child our relationship went to crap. I feel like i am the only one trying in this relationship. He doesnt come onto me anymore. He never kisses me, hugs me, wants to cuddle with me, or have sex. if i try to do any of that he pushes me away and says im getting in the way of him doing something or that i need to wait until later. yet it never happens. and yet im the only one initiating any of it. He barely helps me with our son. god forbid i ask him to change a diaper. he gets an attitude . like the other day i asked him to help me carry up some stuff because my hands were full with my son,and bags, i also had his stroller to carry and im 4 months pregnant with baby number 2. his words were "no, you can do it" he purposely stresses me out and laughs about it. then lately my husband keeps staying late at work, claims that he is waiting for the person behind him to show up, that theyre always late. but everyday? then i look at his phone and notice hes got all these girls numbers who are his coworkers. he wont let me have guys numbers or anything but his excuse is that they were willing to switch him shifts and they wanted him to text them if he wanted to switch. makes me wonder why only girls are willing to switch? and i have trouble trusting him, he hasnt cheated as far as i know but he has talked to other girls behind my back before and had half naked girls as screensavers and everything like that. i just feel worthless and gross. i have talked to him about all this so much and cried so many times to him to work on this with me but nothing changes. i give up, im starting not to care. idk what to do.
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Wow I feel really really bad for you! He treats you like s***! This should be a time where he's extra supportive :(
Well...there's NOTHING he can do about it now...baby is on the way! A baby is not a mistake & you cant allow him or anyone else to make you feel like it is. No offense at all...but stop putting so much energy into your husband & focus on YOU & your toddler! Either he will come around or he wont, but you cant worry about that!! Try spending time with friends, family, & siblings...go get a prenatal massage, a mani/pedi...
@gorgeoushar, that the thing, he isnt happy about this pregnancy, at least he doesnt act like it. we planned it but then he goes and says i pressured him into having another baby :/
You are taking waaaayyyy too much blame for his actions! He needs to accept responsibility here. Pregnancy is a time for you two to get closer, be happier, and deeper in love! Follow your gut, but most importantly follow your heart...a woman knows what's going on without having to be told.
i want to, its my last hope. :/ weve got 2 babies together, we love eachother but theres something missing :/ he tells me that the reason he doesnt love on me is because im a negging, bitchy, whiny, mean wife who needs to show him more love. he thinks he is doing nothing wrong. is blaming it all on me. i hurt and i know i can be mean but not all the time. :/
I was going to suggest counseling too? 😞 thats gotta be really hard
he says he will but when i try to actually get an appointment he laughs at me. :(
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
i finally let him do it
I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that t...
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