How to Handle Baby Shower Planning Without Hurting Feelings?
I need some advice ladies......My sister in law was going to do my baby shower but just yesterday my mother in law tells me she really wants to do it for us. ....My problem is I know my sister in law was getting started looking for ideas and stuff but we want to let my mother in law do it instead. ....I'm really not good at telling people stuff that might hurt their feelings though. ....my mother in law said she could still help but she wants to do it mainly. .....so how do I go about telling my sister in law all this without her feeling like I'm ripping it away from her,she's been talking about it since the beginning. ....I'm at a loss here 😕 I don't wanna insult anybody but idk how she's gonna take it. .....any ideas or advice? TIA
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@jas_cherelle, I have faith they will be, I just gotta come up with a way to tell my sister in law since it's been left up to me 😧
well that's their shit they have to hash out to come together if they both want to do the baby shower. No need for you to be stuck in the middle. Sounds like your mother in law has her heart in the right place for you but also being a twit to your sister in law in one sence if they have a rough relationship to start with and your sister in law wants to do it as well.
That's how I'm handling it , they should be fine working together
@tiffrae, if they talked more that would be possible, but it's a rough relationship so is been left to me 😯 I think my mother in law is kinda hoping she either won't help her or that it will help mend things between them. ....
tell your mother in law to talk it over with the sister in law
@jas_cherelle, that's what I was thinking but I know my sister in law was loving that she was going to be in charge of it. ....
@jas_cherelle, not a bad idea. ...