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emontesmommy

So this is a little rant but its really upsetting me :( Im 20 weeks pregnant with a mixed baby on the way my son will be…

So this is a little rant but its really upsetting me :(

Im 20 weeks pregnant with a mixed baby on the way my son will be half black and half white my half being white and his fathers half being black .... Most of my family on my side has told me there ashamed of me and they dont want anything to do with me because of the race of my baby :( which really upsets me because all of my childhood memories are with them .. I got so upset i could not stop crying it sucks but i am in love with my boyfriend n i love him for who he is not for his skin color i feel like its so messed up how people think ! But i will love my baby regardless and if they dont want to be apart of it then i say f them and im moving on from it but in the back of my mind it still hurts .. Has anyone else went thru this ??

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emontesmommy

emontesmommy

Aww im sorry it really does suck .. But thank u :) @celestea

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keepingupwithkai

Celeste AllenВ ожидании первенца

Me and the father to my baby are both African American and my dad doesn't really talk to me because I got pregnant by an African American and not another race, your not alone! But everyone will come around. Until then focus on your little family 😍

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emontesmommy

emontesmommy

Thank u so much :))! @maybaby2016

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maybaby2016

JackeeМногодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

I'm glad to hear that! Don't let those negative people effect your happiness honey! you deserve the best just like anyone else. good luck to you guys!

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emontesmommy

emontesmommy

@growingphoenix, thats what im saying i cant believe im really dealing with this but theyll see me happier then ever n see my son growing up happy n theyll regret missing out on watching him grow .. Thank u :)

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emontesmommy

emontesmommy

Thank u :)i really appreciate it n i know im starting to see that i dont need them i have my boyfriends family who except me being white and they are more excited then me sometimes it seems like lol n they took me in as one of their own n my mom is a big supporter of mine she cant wait for her first grandbaby so i have alot of people on my side @maybaby2016

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phoenixmuva

DiamondВ ожидании первенца

This is not 1805 back in the slavery days and shit! Times have changed they better get tf over it, this baby didn't do anything to anyone so if they can't love him screw them he doesn't deserve to be mistreated because he's half black...he's also still half white and has half his moms DNA which is half of them!

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maybaby2016

JackeeМногодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

I've never been through that, it's got to be hard. I'm really sorry sweetie. I have had people turn their back on me for other things and what I can tell you is that you're better off without them. I know it's hard but it was easy for them, so maybe over time you will see that and you don't have to be blood to be family. the right people will find you and accept you, your boyfriend and your baby into their lives.

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emontesmommy

emontesmommy

Exactly what im saying -.- . It just sucks cause all the memories i have with them like all the family gathering i wanted my son to be apart of it and now he cant cause there selfish n there ways .. Ill just make new memories and start new family traditions with my son that hell remember and pass on .. @kellynicole thank u :)

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kellynicole

Kelly 🌻В ожидании первенца

It's sad that it is 2016 and this stuff still happens 😕 stay strong

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mrs.fernandez

Raqael FernandezМама сына-младенца

So sorry you have to go though that Mama hopefully when the baby gets here everything will be okay. I've personally never been through that I have a mixed baby also.

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gorgeoushar

ShariМама подростка

Never experienced this because of color, but my boyfriends family has disowned him & our daughter because she was born out of wedlock! Reality is simple...people are ignorant! If the color of someone's skin prevents you from seeing & knowing their heart, then you are a damn fool! Family is supposed to be supportive, but sometimes my dear you have to love them from a far. A baby is a blessing, don't go regretting your blessing because of your family. Live your life to the best of your ability & do whatever you have to for your baby. Congratulations & good luck.

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emontesmommy

emontesmommy

Aww thank u so much :) .. @junesmommy15

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missing98user

missing98userМама сына-младенца

You're just a better person than they'll ever be

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