@jeanie, youre right. Its your child. And if they cant respect your wishes of how to do things, family or not, then they dont need to be around. My kids love my mom. But she drinks. Even after i few beers i told her she is not to touch my children if shes drinking. Which pissed her off like im keeping my kids from her. But if they really want to be in your child's life then theyll respect your choices and wishes. Regardless.

@jeanie, I'm so sorry hear that. Breastfeeding is not being selfish, its wanting whats best for your child. If they don't see they are being selfish. At the end of the day shes your child and you know her best! We are all here for you. Breastfeeding is hard, stand your groubf and know we support you. *hugs*

@sissy340,

@jessica408, @liz5511 @marmber @mommybump2016 @sissy340. They think I'm selfish that I choose to breastfeed. and like today I told my mom that she likes to be wrapped this way and then she got pissed and refused to hold her. like really? this is my child not yours. I just want it done this way and that's that. looks like I'm not going to be going around family for a while which will hurt me cuz I'm alone anyway. but I guess this is what I have to do.

You,re the momma... Do what u want! I remind people regularly that I'm the momma and I make finally decision!

I'f they don't like the way you want to raise your child to me they don't belong. your doing what you want to do for you and baby, they need to respect that !

Thats crazy!

@jeanie, i know how you feel. Most of my family literally told me i was stupid for not getting an epidural with my first born. Like really????

...that's crazy girl...I'm sorry. stick to your guns. you're doing what's best for YOUR baby

@jessica408, No they don't like that I am. My family is against it. They like bottle feeding cuz then anyone can feed that baby.

I'm confused...they ain't like that you ARE breast feeding!? wth!!!!