I've been thinking a lot lately on how the twins will effect my soon to be 6 year old daughter. She has already expressed her feelings about being ignored or not have enough attention paid to her. I keep reassuring her that we will not forget about her or ignore her, and that if she ever feels that way to use her voice and tell me or her dad she feels that way. How can I make myself feel better about how she feels? It breaks my heart to think she feels like we will just sweep her under the rug like that. My husband assured me that no matter what it takes she will always feel front and center in our family. but I am just so scared she will get those feels and there won't be anything I can do to make her feel otherwise....anyone have similar situations. ..how did you deal with it?
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just make sure you guys always have a special day together... once a month or more if possible n let her help with all the baby stuff I like my daughter just help put the baby stuff together earlier n that made her feel so important she is also 6
hey my September momma's how u feeling any think they gone in before September are we gone make it all the way ?
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
What would you do? - baby shower
SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever...
I don't think she gets it.
I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.
thanks ladies, she is going to be coming our my gender scan on Wednesday so I think she will like that!!