I've been thinking a lot lately on how the twins will effect my soon to be 6 year old daughter. She has already expressed her feelings about being ignored or not have enough attention paid to her. I keep reassuring her that we will not forget about her or ignore her, and that if she ever feels that way to use her voice and tell me or her dad she feels that way. How can I make myself feel better about how she feels? It breaks my heart to think she feels like we will just sweep her under the rug like that. My husband assured me that no matter what it takes she will always feel front and center in our family. but I am just so scared she will get those feels and there won't be anything I can do to make her feel otherwise....anyone have similar situations. ..how did you deal with it?