is it normal, to not be able to stand your husband? he's constantly got an annoying attitude. I…

is it normal, to not be able to stand your husband? he's constantly got an annoying attitude. I don't want to be around him. I really don't feel like it's me. he's not doing much around the house. everything he does drives me insane!!! I hope this feeling goes away after we have the babies. I really don't know if it's him or me. I'm the pregnant one, that's active and motivated and wants to get things done. he wants to lay around all weekend. he used to not be like this. regardless of his jobs, he used to be motivated. now he seems careless about everything and himself. and feels I'm just a nag. I can't speak, or say anything without being a nag.