My mil wants to do a baby shower in June or July after the babies are born. I'm not against her…

I wouldn't want my baby passed around either, no touching or kissing. Hopefully she understands.

@aidensmommy, she's going to have to. It's always going to be dead of summer here in the desert and I'm not having my babies out in 110-120 degree weather. She really hasn't discussed anything with me just my husband so it makes me nervous. But i have to put my foot down when it comes to my children.

My MIL is doing the same thing for my baby shower. It's June 18 and I'm due on May 17, so my baby girl will be only a few weeks old. I've already told her and my bf that no one but me and the daddy will be holding her and people who come can only admire her from a distance.

Omg..my family was just talking about having a shower after they are born.. Im like the same way..thats ok.. But they wont be attending.. I dont want everyone touching my twins.. Breathing on them and they will already be premies so.. Im just like seriously.. Im so done with this whoke baby shower thing lol

@hanna_lynn, @ftmommieoftwiinz right?! I don't know why they think it's okay for babies to be passed around right after they are born!? Especially when they are premature! Ugh. Sometime I don't understand people.

I feel your pain. I dont mind having a late baby shower.. I just dont want people breathing and kissing my kids.. Thats an absolute no no.. Even if i still have to spray everyone with Lysol

I feel your pain. I dont mind having a late baby shower.. I just dont want people breathing and kissing my kids.. Thats an absolute no no.. Even if i still have to spray everyone with Lysol

@ftmommieoftwiinz, right! I'm fine with the baby shower later if she wants to do it but babies are staying home. Period. Not enough hand sanitizer in the world! Plus I don't know these ladies! Its just way out of my comfort zone