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jeasie bell
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got into a huge fight with my husband... I hsve no one else to talk to about it, I was hoping I can talk here... the…

got into a huge fight with my husband... I hsve no one else to talk to about it, I was hoping I can talk here...

the argument was over me telling him I was going to call my sister to pick me an the baby up so we can give him time to paint with his friend. he got all mad and said I was fucking stupid and just kept insulting me... it's what he wanted to do... paint the room with his friend I don't understand. .. he then follows me to my room and starts shouting and the baby was sleeping. I told him to stop yelling because the baby is here and how can he do that infront of her? after I told him to just leave and do what he always does which is smoke weed to be a completely different person he breaks his cologne on the floor and glass goes everywhere even on my baby's face and she gets wet from the cologne. . I was furious because God forbid she had gotten hurt.. he would be dead.. luckily I cleaned it off and I went to my parents room (my parents are away for a month in mexico) I locked the door and prys it open with a knife continues yelling at me and I threathened to call the cops so I go to grab the phone which is close to the baby's head on the bed and he end up hitting her by mistake and she starts crying. I punched him and threw his shit down the stairs and he slaps me really hard then pushes me and I hit my back on the corner of the dinning table... my back and head are killing me and my face was bright red from one side... I kicked him in the balls but I wish I could have really hurt him god knows I will kill for my baby girl but I have to be here for her. now I definitely left him for good. I want what's best for my baby girl. my mom went through it with my dad and I suffered alot... my family would tell me I barely spoke growing up and it was because seeing my mom get hit after she had an opinion made me scared to speak my mind.. to say a word thinking he would hurt me too.. I don't want my daughter to go through what I went through..

I need support right now I'm really hurt and scared for my babygirl... I hate the thought of her growing up without both her parents

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LismaryМама троих детей

@jeasie, i hope everything is okay. im here if you ever need to talk.

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jeasie

jeasie bellМама дочки-младенца

oh don't worry he's gone he keeps texting me if he can come back to say sorry to our baby but I told him to not set foot here or the cops will be called @mantha823 . I'm glad you did that's Terrible... I'm sorry you had to go through that but once you let go everything just feels so much better! @sktraum

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sktraum

StephМногодетная мама (5 детей)

I was married for 15 years to a wife abuser. Eventually he started PUNCHING my oldest kids in the face to where he busted blood vessels in their eyes and left bruises on their cheek bones. They were 12 and 14. One boy one girl. I finally left him, scared to death but I had to. For my kids safety.

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mantha823

SamanthaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Can you get him to leave your house now? I would get a PFA against him hun.

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jeasie

jeasie bellМама дочки-младенца

thank you ladies.. I'm not planing on fixing our relationship anymore. I wont be dumb enough to sit around and wait for it to happen again. She's my everything and man or no man I will be strong for her. my parents will be back next week thank god. @kattastrophe @mantha823 @melinag_ @mommy529 @mrsmoore

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mantha823

SamanthaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

you can't stay with him for your sake and the babies sake. He clearly has an anger issue and if he's going to do stuff like that near her and could hurt her....he needs to stay away and get help. your doing the right thing....don't go back you and especially your daughter do not need this.

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kattastrophe

BonnieМама дочки-младенца

interesting psychology fact, when someone breaks something out of anger, it's because they're try to refrain from hitting the person they're mad at. it's an early sign of later abuse. beginning of a progression. I know it's hard, but I don't think you want your baby seeing that when she's old enough to remember. especially because girls grow up to expect the relationship that mom and dad have. dads set the example for how girls think boys should treat them. you could call the cops, but that only helps if you are willing to leave him after.

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melinag_

MelinaМама дочки-младенца

I'd call the cops I hope everything gets better for u n your baby girl physical abuse only gets worse I know from experience

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mrsmoore

Sarah krashinМама троих детей

have him leave the house ,he's no good they do it once they will do it again coming from experience

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rcbaby1

anneВ ожидании первенца

Are your partner's coming back soon and did he leave?

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rcbaby1

anneВ ожидании первенца

I'm so sorry u had to just go thru that

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