I know I'm only 23weeks along but I been thinking alot lately about labor. I don't know if I should have just me an my boyfriend or my boyfriend an my mom in the room? I don't want my mil in there at all.(we are not close) an my boyfriend knows that. but I don't know if that should only be a moment for me an him or should I let my mom in there? what are you ladies doing?
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I don't blame you at all! my dad is upset I don't want him in there but growing up he's never been around until this past year and a half so it's strange.
yeah my mother in law will not be in there lol probably just my mom an boyfriend @shelsynikkol
@justine_kim, my mom drove herself she even stopped at McDonald's first 😂😂
I'm only having my husband and mom. he doesn't care that I don't want his mom in there. he understands that I only want the people that are close to me. I would feel very uncomfortable if she was in the room. I don't know how she feels about it. but it is about you so it's whatever you want!
It's going to be just my husband and mom noone else
My mother will be in there with me and fiancé, she brought me into this world and raised me, it's very special and think she deserves to be apart of her first grandbaby arrival.
it's just me and my mom...but if my mom is working at her hospital the night i go into labor then it's just me... i wont even have a ride to the hospital if she cant take me...:( i mean i can probably drive myself even during my contractions i suppose??
@caddiebugg, she wouldn't make you feel bad about your decision! I told my mom I might not want anyone in the room and she said ok that's fine, whatever you want
My SO wants it to be just us but I'm having my mom & best friend in there too.
yeah so I don't know. I feel bad cause I don't want to hurt her feelings but at the sametime I don't know😣@candacelouise
Ohhhh @caddiebugg well then I wouldn't have when in there. Sounds like she will just cause more stress than less
the only reason I was thinking to not have my mom in there is because I don't want it videoed an i don't want pictures unroll he is almost out. I'm also very private person an she would try to be all down there up close an personal. I tried to tell her this but she doesn't want to listen. if she could just stand back an watch an not be all up on me then I will be okay but I have a feeling she will not listen..@candacelouise, @sweetnicole
@caddiebugg, I would say your mom too! But... It all depends who can keep you calm and not make you mad. I would say mom because she knows even if you do say something mean, she has been there done that and knows it's just from pain and frustration. Lol she won't take it personally
I'm doing my mama and boyfriend! We're extremely close so that's why
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Should I let my x know when labor starts
My boyfriend thinks I should hire someone he can have sex with for 6 weeks after I have my son. I don't know whether to snap on him or what?
So my boyfriend just said he don't want to be with because his mom doesn't like me !
Is it wrong for me not to want my boyfriends mom in the room when I deliver my son?
@shelsynikkol lmaooo so funny... I'll probably do the same