It's frustrating that I go and do all my husbands family stuff even though me and them don't always…

It's frustrating that I go and do all my husbands family stuff even though me and them don't always get along. Then when it comes to my family stuff its to much for my husband. I barely get to see my dad and the one day im going to its to much to go. Im so tired of feeling like when it comes to do anything with my side its to much for him when my family treats him amazing! My aunt got him a job he loves for 15$ an hour, my mom and my grandma always tell him how amazing of a dad he is, but yeah its to much to go see them. im so over it