I told my boyfriend last night that living in my parents house and having a belly this big made me a little embarrassed. I don't open up to him usually and he knows that I'm working on it and I sat there and debated with myself about telling him for like an hour before I said screw it and told him. And he comes back at me saying that's how he felt from day one when we still had a chance to abort but I said no and that I'm acting like it's not affecting him any and like "Having to fight the feeling that to you this baby is a chain to link you to someone whose got their shit together so you no longer have to be stuck with your mom. While I feel like it's the chain holding me back from whatever potential I could have reached and tying me to your family issues. I'm sorry. I love you. But damn. You say these things about embarrassment like I should feel bad for you but honestly I don't because since the baby, other than the pains of being pregnant, I'd say this worked out better than you could have ever dreamed. You're moving out of your house, away from your mom, and permanently attached yourself to someone with a job who can provide and take care of you. Forgot what this did to that persons life goals and hopes and dreams and family relationships. So you want to come at me here and now, 6 months in, talking about being embarrassed at the way this all went down? I haven't said a single thing for months but damn Johnnie. Sometimes know when to keep shit to yourself. It's what I've had to do for the sake of us."
So I didn't reply to him, I cried and went to sleep. Anyone else have issues like this? What did y'all do?