I felt like this post just for me smh lol what's your thought ladies!!!! Before you say anything I been with my man for…

lol i agree lol ive never been a fan of playing house. .but I don't judge folks who do. i personally cant see myself as someone live in gf for years and let that be it.. 8 out of 10 the man will get COMFORTABLE and thats all you'll ever be. I know someone whos been this mans gf for 30 years.. but if you happy who cares

I'd lived with boyfriends in the past and talked about getting married but it never happened. When I started seeing my husband we didn't have to move in together (neither one of us was paying rent where we were and we were close by). We got married a year after being together and it's been 9 years this week. It's been the greatest 9 years of my entire life. He makes me laugh and he hold me close when I need his love and support. Together we have built a great life. We communicate about what's nothing is and we don't fight with bad language. If your man doesn't lift you up and support your needs then maybe he's not the right guy for you. Just because you love him doesn't mean it's right. I loved an abusive piece of shit for 2 years before I saw the light.

I totally agree with you too lol I'm not saying I don't wanna get married but marriage is a big step and I don't want to rush thing up!!! But at the same time our ass getting old lol @lilfree16

it is a big step =) I LOVE IT! i felt different .. even tho i fell preggers during our engagement... we waited until afte the wedding to move in and everything.. but things happen.. just respect yourself because some men will take advantage.. i know females with shut up engagement rings.. been engaged for 3byears and her '"fiance" always changes the date when it gets too close lol

His the total package...he cook,clean,provide for us , bring me flowers and gifts just because!! I can't ask for anything else really!! I really feel bad that he have to wait for my answer So can go ahead and get married!! @valrocks

Then what are you waiting for. Being married has been the greatest thing for me. I couldn't ask for anything more. It is a big step but in the right direction.

I bet and congrats 😘 we basically married in a way lol we talked about getting a house and all smh I really need to stop and think about it @lilfree16

You right Hun thank you @valrocks definitely will have the talk!!

..do it lol =) its a beautiful thing

I will soon ☺️ @lilfree16

Been married once, not trying to do it again, it's 2016, I don't need to be married to justify my relationship

Lol that's what I said @babes87101116