My SO wanted this baby and now? well in short, he thought that by watching 15 week updates about…

honestly I didn't even remember my due date until like week 30 and as long as you tell him what's going on it's all good don't be too hard on the guy when ppl say guys font become. dad until the baby is born it's true

I just feel like he doesn't care. I'll try to lighten up.

honestly men dont understand anything that goes on with us..especially in pregnancy! but try to look at it this way if he truly didnt care he wouldn't of even watched or thought or considered watching even the 15 week updates so atleast he made an effort to watch it and try to understand what's going on with you and baby! some men just dont give a shit at all and don't put in any effort to know anything about our pregnancies or the baby until it actually gets here... but this os just my opinion darlin and i hope you dont think i was mean or harsh and if you did i sincerely apologize it absolutely wasnt my intentions!! 😉

@tinyram09, no you weren't and yeah I understand but he was watching it because I was sitting there. I told him you don't have to pretend just because I'm here. so he closed it and started reading news. I know he does it while I'm around to make me feel better but it just doesn't seem right. Idk I guess i just better get that some men don't get it.

hey atleast he cares enough to try to impress you and do it while your around right? some men will never get it! id cut him some slack but if its bothering you darlin talk to him about it and let him know that you feel like if he truly cares he would atleast start to try to make more of an effort to understand and then if he still doesnt get it together then i would be pissed off..he may of only been doing it cuz u were sitting there but atleast he was doing it right? and he might have just turned it off and gave up cuz he was trying to impress you and it bothered him what you said... like i said before this is just my opinion..im not no relationship expert or anything.. lol..but just trying to give you another point of view..i really hope nothing i said upsets you!

No I understand what your saying. There has just been so much other crap that's happened so at this point it's hard to cut him slack. I'm sort of over it at this point. you aren't upsetting me but it's just hard for people to understand when they don't know what goes on all the time:) thanks for the advice

My SO didn't read anything and didn't seem interested in the pregnancy at all! He never talked to my belly or did anything cute. I thought he just wasn't interested. But when Phillip was born he has been the BEST dad. I mean I couldn't ask for a better partner. So don't worry. I just think men sometimes don't know how to deal with pregnancy and are pretty weirded out by the whole thing haha. But @airannamommy is right about them not becoming dad until they are born!

ok, I'll take your guys word for it. thanks gugs

Guys just don't get it