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Marissa Maria Ruth Martinez

😔 I still don't think it's fair, that I have to get the depo shot... This is all BS...

😔 I still don't think it's fair, that I have to get the depo shot... This is all BS...

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mama33577

Hannah

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noone can legally make you get the shot.. how would she know if you got it or not?

followoursurrogacy

Rebecca

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I would say move out then so that your mother in law isn't controlling your every move. My mom always said "my house, my rules" So I moved out when I was 18 :)

marikss

Mari

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

exactly like the other user said... and that kind of goes no matter whos house your in, its always their rules and she's actually pretty smart considering you guys are living in her house. She feels like you guys aren't ready for a baby or should be trying if you guys aren't on your own.

mommabeartobe555

Paige

Don't go on depo!! It is horrible!! It causes weight gain, depression, your hormones will go completely out of whack, and you won't have a period so when you get off of it, it takes months to regulate again. Plus it can stay in your system for up to a year after your last shot preventing pregnancy. I would not recommend it to anyone

martinezmamma

Marissa Maria Ruth Martinez

@mama33577, cuz she'll be the one takin us.

@followoursurrogacy I was out on my own at 17, but rent where I live is crazy expensive..

@mommabeartobe555

I'm completely against contraceptions... Especially something that can stay in my system for that long. She says if I don't get it, then I'm gonna get kicked out and will be sent back to live with my mother. And my mother is moving on April 5th.... So I really don't get a win win situation here...

mama33577

Hannah

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get a different birth control it took me two years to get pregnant with my second it messes your body up

mommabeartobe555

Paige

Try to find cheaper rent maybe, or stay with a friend until you can save up?

martinezmamma

Marissa Maria Ruth Martinez

@mama33577, I was just gonna get the pills, but she said no, cuz you have to constantly take them everyday and what if you forget to take them.. So she said the shot, that way I'll be covered for 4 months, and then get another shot..

@mommabeartobe555 there really is no cheap rent here... The lowest I've seen was $950 for a 1 bed/ 1 bath... And friends? I don't have none of those here... All the people I call "friends" are adults and have their own families to take care of...

mama33577

Hannah

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did you try low income?,Dickinson has a lot of rentals

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?