RANT--------My ex boyfriend (The father of my youngest son who will be born in four days) came over to start his stay here with me while I recover from my csection and what not and we were going to see where we stood during this time. Less than three hours into it and he's already fucked it up. He let me catch him in another lie. Last week he bribed his ex gf into letting him use her car to attend a baby appointment by providing her with pills and I flipped shit. He told me he was living a clean life style and that I was overreacting, he didn't do anything wrong, etc. The day of my baby shower (Sunday) I go to grab something out of the back of his mom's car and smelled weed coming from his bag. He says he left his bag in someone's car and that's why it smelled that way. Called him out on it again today when he pulled his duffle bag out of the trunk of his new car and he says he knows my opinion on it and wouldn't do that. I get my oldest son to bed and we settle in for a movie. He tells me he is going down stairs to "grab a cigarette" and I asked him how he left his cigarettes in his bag in the car, when he just smoked one outside not 10 minutes before and he gives me some half ass excuse about how it was only a halfie and the pack is down stairs. Comes back upstairs reeking of weed and I call him out on it. He couldn't lie to me then. Turns out he's been smoking again ever since we broke up (if not before) and then wants to wonder why I don't trust him. I should have put my foot down the last time he lied about it when he got caught getting high and work and almost lost his job, or the time before that when I trusted him to baby sit my son and came home early from work to find him locked in the bathroom smoking weed while my son was unattended at the kitchen table. Or maybe the time before that when he fabricated a whole mandatory work get together/ bbq that he supposedly attended instead of hanging out with me, when infact he was high as hell with one of his druggy friends and didn't want to get caught. I am very aware that some parents smoke weed recreationally but I am not one of them nor will I support it, have it in or around my home or my children, or be with someone who does it. In my opinion, once you have children you should put aside childish habits like that. Especially since it is illegal in the state we reside in. Neither he nor the mother of his other children can pass a drug test and it breaks my heart for those poor kids. Three kids later and he still can't grow up. Guess I'm grateful that he drew the line for me earlier on in this stay so that I didn't waste anymore of my time on him.