Young, single mommy whose body is now ruined from all this extra skin I have from being pregnant. So…

@zaysmomma, you don't need to lower your standards if someone likes you it should be because of the person you are your body right now is temporary it can be changed

Awwwe hunny youre beautiful don't ever lower your standard many man would want you! mine married me after i had 3 kids with my x! if has worth it he'll be there hunny!

I think this extra skin is permanent 😟 but thanks for the smile mommas 💞 @momma1 @mygiftof2016

@zaysmomma, you never know! just lead a healthy life take care of yourself

my stomach was at my knees after i gave birth my belly is back to the way it was before..im not even joking. to. my. knees. lol it will only get better you will be amazed in a few months i promise you! it takes time

Somewhere, there is a man who will LOVE you for YOU! He will love and appreciate every curve, every beauty mark, every stretch mark, every inch of you! AAAAANNNNDDDD he will love your baby too!!!! There are tons of assholes out there, but there are wonderful guys as well. My husband and I started talking 3 months after my first son was born. He INSTANTLY fell in love with me AND my son. He didn't care that I had stretch marks or that I had loose skin, he loved me because I'm funny, because I'm beautiful in the inside and out and he loved seeing how much my son meant to me. You'll see. One day you'll meet an awesome guy. For now, focus on your little one, and find things that you love about yourself! You're beautiful! Stay strong and smile.

Thanks for the hope @babyluca and thank you @kimberlyyyy 💜💜 you made me feel a lot better. Hopefully I can find someone like ur husband one day. This whole newborn stage just has me really down right now, probably the lack of sleep 😩 lol but I'm trying to stay strong for him!

You can't be serious I became a mom at 18 and have stretch marks all over my stomach and I had no problem dating and even dated guys my age at the time who had no kids. Someone who over looks you based on physical appearance alone isn't worth your time. I ain't never have no trouble getting a man being a young single mother and I just had my second and if we broke up today I guarantee that fat and full of stretch marks with now two kids I won't have a problem finding a decent mate because there is more to me than just the physical and there is more to you than just the physical. Confidence is key so if that's the attitude you will take into dating No man is gonna want you and it won't be because of your physical appearance. Maybe you have new mom anxiety but please know that you are beautiful inside more than out! 😍

Oh and NEVER lower your standards !!!

What we think men want and what they actually do want are 2 very different images!

I know I just feel like in today's day and age men judge highly of women's bodies and the men I find attractive definitely won't find me attractive now. But your right, he's got to have more than that. Im also upset because I got horrible stretch marks AFTER I gave birth 😟I'm just waiting for it to get a little better, I think I still got the baby blues right now because I need some me time😩 thank you for that though, I needed it 💜 @ginag918

Right @mygiftof2016

I think now more than ever men are actually embracing real women with stretch marks and physical evidence that life happens lol those who still looking for a Victoria secret model who is perfect in every way I mean I don't want them kind of guys any way so to hell with them!!

Tampa not like that at all unfortunately lol @ginag918