VENT POST: I thought I had a really good day yesterday since I got the job, interviewed for a few other jobs, celebrated…

I think he may be asking to sleep with other women when you guys are physically separated in September

@growingphoenix, exactly. I feel so numb and confused. I'm definitely starting to question it now BC I'm going to be moving in September to GA without him for a few months for an internship until he can move there too in early 2017. Like is he saying that once he comes back to CA after the baby is born he wants to sleep with other women and then resume our relationship when he moves to GA??!! What??! I want to cry so bad right now. Beyond stressed

Well atleast he asked instead of just cheating...I'm not sure what you should do or how to even give you advice because I would be so confused if I were in your shoes. It's very selfish of him to think it's even okay to ask that...I would think jealousy would come in somewhere because I wouldn't want another man touching my wife, that leaves room for others to gain feelings, which we can't control, and room to allow others to start to love you then when you leave him for someone else he's going to be hurt but he asked!

@mamaof003, @growingphoenix yes..its what you think it is. I'm really trying not to stress but today really did it for me. I literally feel like my mind has exploded. I guess we're headed to counseling 😕

*with your significant other

open marriage means being able to see other people or bring them into relationship with you SO

What the hell is a open marriage? I may be thinking of the wrong thing because I know he's not asking for what I think he's asking for...

Oooohhhh!!!! Ok if that was me i would be i love you but thats not for me so go kick rocks 😏 ✌️. Hope u have a better day

oh wow momma.I wish you luck. I would go nuts if my fiancé asked me that

@luvmyboyz, an open marriage is where we are still married and in a relationship but we can sleep with other people. What gets me is that he said I can sleep with other men too. wth. I love him more than he knows and I don't even think about other men. I offered to leave ya know. I said if he wants to be with other women we can separate and I won't keep him from the child but he says he loves me and wants me there. so confused

Im sorry your having a bad day.but whats an open marriage?

U need to calm down this much stress isn't good for u so early it can cause u to have a miscarriage! Don't let little things bother u. Ur husband is crazy why in the hell would he even ask that especially u being Prego lol