So since Monday my mother in law decided to put in my husbands head that I should get my tubes tied because we are having our third child and raising three kids is hard !!! I'm so pissed with this . who tf she thinks she is ? I'm 22 I'm not getting my tubes tied !! She told him that if we get divorced he can have more kids with someone else so is not fair for him to get a vasectomy. Well now he keeps telling me that I don't have a choice I have to because she said so .. Guess what I'm not because I want another baby !!! So screw them !!! I hate his family .
We get alone fine me and my husband !! She is always on our business and he is a mommas boy he listens to his mom !! She doesn't like me because I'm not Christian like she is !! It also bothers her that I'm stay home mom !! My husband doesn't want me to work and that irritates her .. She is weird !!! His sisters doesn't like me because they are illegal and gave my husband a green card !!! And they aren't able to get one thru him it takes 10-15 years !!!
So wait it's ok for him to have more kids w Someone else but it's not ok for u to have more kids.. Wow either u guys must not get along or idk.
Wow. it is your body and your choice. Why would she even be speaking of divorce, and the same would true in the reverse. If he doesn't want more children with his wife how much sense does it make for him to have children if something like that should ever happen. That lady needs boundaries and hubby needs to listen to the most important lady in his life and that's you. Hope you and hubby actually have a discussion about it without other people's opinions.
wow that's RUDE as hell.....people told me get mine tied after my second um no.....I'm on my fourth they can suck it my life my body my kids are well taken care of
I would pull my mother in law to the side and ask her what is her issue with you because she must have one if she's implying you're going to get a divorce. And you tell your husband that she is HIS mother not yours, and you don't have to listen to anything she says
they got you fucked up, getting pregnant is a two way street. He can use a condom or try pulling out. before she suggest birth control. She's being an ass. Don't tell her off b.c she's your mother in law but tell ur man something.