my SO gets rude with me but I get rude too and we had a fight lastnight about money and him not being home and not communicating with me. while he's gone and I sit at home thinking the worst and he thought I liked it when he spent money on me and I had to tell him no I just want his time and effort and he still didn't understand

@bridgete, you need to have a talk with him because that's not right.

@beaniebeanjd, he just speaks to me disrespectfully to the point where his brother in law told our friends that he treats me shitty

@bridgete, money doesn't always matter, but if he doesn't treat you right then you should not be with him.