In need of serious advice however if i feel ur judging me I will get disrespectful...ok im a diabetic i been pregnant 6 times i have 3 living children and 2 that passed away due to complications with my diabetes this is my 6 pregnancy but im scared ..i cant be a happy expecting mother cause i have to prepare for the worst and thats losing another baby..so i decided that if i go to my ultrasound and dr finds complications i was going to terminate my pregnancy because mentally i wont be able to go through carrying then delivering and losing my baby
its completely up to you. Why would she consider bc is she is trying for another healthy pregnancy? yeah abortion is hard but miscarrying is just as hard.
@expectingbaby04, My state is crazy strict and doesn't allow them at all so I honestly wasn't sure what your laws were. You're a good mom for facing such a tough decision.
Were there any complications with the children who are surviving?
Just as one perspective, I have a friend who lost 5 and has 4 surviving. At the end she had major complications with a set of twins and lost one and thought of terminating the other, but decided not to and although the baby came early, she survived and is now strong and healthy.
Good luck and I hope everything goes as smoothly as possible.
Not judging, just curious, but will you state let you abort this far along? Aside from that, that's your decision. Given the track record with the other babies who had complications I can't blame you for wanting to end things before it gets to far. I can't imagine being in your shoes, it must be incredibly difficult. I'm going to hope for the best for you and your little one. Stay strong. ♡
It's your decision, but I would also consider birth control so you don't have to make this decision again. Not judging, just know how hard an abortion is, emotionally. I had one when I was 17
that decision is totally 100% up to you. if you don't think you'll mentally be able to do it, than you don't have to put yourself through that again. do whats best for you! Don't do something because another mom says so. And ignore the other negative moms. its your choice :) good luck momma! @expectingbaby04
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the fact that i do have 3 healthy children is proof that i can have a sucessful pregnancy i dont believe in abortions at all i was just considering it only under those conditions where doc is telling me baby is not going to survive out side the womb