Need advice.... My boyfriends mother is the devil in a dress, I've been nothing but kind and nice to her ever sense she moved in with us (we were going to move to a bigger house and she took over payments on this house and we just haven't found a place we like yet). Basically I can't handle it anymore I truly I can't.... She asked my boyfriend (not me) if she could hold the baby he told me I said really whatever she doesn't even like me... Anyways she was holding her and feeding her and in Spanish she told my boyfriend that my daughter is the ugliest out of all his kids...... (He has 2 sons and 3 other daughters) now I am pissed and I can't even stand to look or talk to her. Today she had clothes in he dryer for the 3 day and I needed to wash baby clothes so I moved her stuff and she told my boyfriend that she doesn't want me touching her stuff and she hates me yadda yadda. I don't know what to do now, everything inside me wants to call her out but I shouldn't....
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First I'm sooo sorry you have to put up with this. I wouldn't put up with it. I would have been back with my parents the moment she started acting that way. And for anyone to call a child ugly no matter if it was joking I would flip. Your man needs to choose his mother or you and your daughter you shouldn't have to put up with that.
I'd leave. Your man should fucking stick up for you! I understand that's his mom but if my mother said that about him I'd lose it!
She just loves drama and I know if I speak to her woman to woman she'll go all high school crazy on and I might end up kicking some old lady's butt :P
@myliltadpole1116, there is no talking to this woman haha when I was pregnant she told me I was going to have the most beautiful daughter because out of all the women her son has had kids with I'm the most attractive one.... (His 2 sons were from one woman and his 3 daughters from another)
@nicolerawrr, then maybe you need to sit her done and hash it out..
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If she's telling him all these things he should be protecting you and telling her to cut it out.
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