I feel like I am getting zero help from my boyfriend. He changes a diaper here and there and he…

I feel like I am getting zero help from my boyfriend. He changes a diaper here and there and he holds her for a few minutes then puts her in her swing.. I am the one that gets up all night with her and feeds and changes her. I know he works a lot to support us but I wish he would help more. I also wish he appreciated me more. I only had a baby 3 weeks ago and I worked my ass off cleaning the apartment top to bottom and I cooked dinner. He wouldn't wake up for dinner and told me to leave him the f*** alone when I tried to wake him up. he wanted this baby as much as I did and if he doesn't step up i honestly don't know if we will last. I love him so much and I want to be with him but I can't do this by myself.