and in the end sometimes we have to just deal with the fact that some grandparents-to-be can't fall in love with the baby until they get to see it and hold it for the first time. but you can't let the negativity drag you down. You and your significant other have to make the choice for yourself

you have to do what is best for you..... my parents are always the one putting on the brakes and Advising me to wait for the best moment and the opportune time when they feel that my husband and I are most prepared for things but in all reality you are never prepared for a child. There are surprises around every corner and even when my brother and I came along my parents weren't ready. You have to choose what is best for you and your significant other. you can't let anybody else make the decision for you. But the best I can tell you is to go to the job interview see how that works out and then put away money and get a little nest-egg going so that you can have a little cushion for when you finally get that positive test result and you will be on your way to that family