I am so over this house. Like I seriously wish my SO would get his head out of his families ass and tell them to go. If…
I am so over this house. Like I seriously wish my SO would get his head out of his families ass and tell them to go. If they were helping out around the house, helping with bills, dishes, laundry, ect. I would understand them staying, but all they do is take up space and expect me to clean up after them and do all their laundry and feed them and live here for free. My SO won't tell them to go or talk to them about the way they treat me because they are "family" okay.. well I'm your fiance and I'm carrying your child and they are stressing me to the max and treating me like complete shit. I can't even set up a bedroom for our child because they are taking up the extra rooms.. I'm honestly getting sick of this life.
Vanessa·
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I would have been a bitch and jus quit doing their laundry and picking up after them. I would take care of my dishes and laundry and wait for him to get home and see the mess. maybe it'll be a wake up call for him bc u being prego, u should not be doing extra work. @babyhorton16
Amanda·
I'd lose my mind. Is there any friend/family member nearby you could stay with? Like, talk to your SO and be like, either you tell them to go, or I do. I'm your fiancé, not your family's welcome mat or maid. Not that you leave him, but bet- if you're not there to clean up for a week, he'll see just how sloppy his family is. /:
Carissa Dabbs·
I can't just take off and leave because it's his week with his boys and he works all week and his family won't cook for them or watch them. Believe me, I've thought about leaving.. And I've tried the whole "only do our laundry and dishes" but then it gets so disgusting that I just cannot take it anymore @evococa @nessa_475
Amanda·
): I'm sorry dear. I wish I could be more help. Maybe harness those pregnancy hormones and let em loose. Lol. *hugs* prayers things get better for you dear.
Vanessa·
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he needs to see how messy they are. I know its gross believe me I'm the same way but if u jus leave it there long enough it should start to sink in with him. he needs a wake up call. that's not fair to u @babyhorton16
Carissa Dabbs·
Thank you so much @evococa and I know it's not fair, and I love him and I want us to be a family and stay together for this baby, but I'm high risk as it is and they stress me out so much and actually make me hate my life. I come shut myself up in the room and cry almost every day because I hate them that much.. I'm miserable @nessa_475