I am so over this house. Like I seriously wish my SO would get his head out of his families ass and tell them to go. If they were helping out around the house, helping with bills, dishes, laundry, ect. I would understand them staying, but all they do is take up space and expect me to clean up after them and do all their laundry and feed them and live here for free. My SO won't tell them to go or talk to them about the way they treat me because they are "family" okay.. well I'm your fiance and I'm carrying your child and they are stressing me to the max and treating me like complete shit. I can't even set up a bedroom for our child because they are taking up the extra rooms.. I'm honestly getting sick of this life.
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he needs to see how messy they are. I know its gross believe me I'm the same way but if u jus leave it there long enough it should start to sink in with him. he needs a wake up call. that's not fair to u @babyhorton16
): I'm sorry dear. I wish I could be more help. Maybe harness those pregnancy hormones and let em loose. Lol. *hugs* prayers things get better for you dear.
I can't just take off and leave because it's his week with his boys and he works all week and his family won't cook for them or watch them. Believe me, I've thought about leaving.. And I've tried the whole "only do our laundry and dishes" but then it gets so disgusting that I just cannot take it anymore @evococa @nessa_475
I'd lose my mind. Is there any friend/family member nearby you could stay with? Like, talk to your SO and be like, either you tell them to go, or I do. I'm your fiancé, not your family's welcome mat or maid. Not that you leave him, but bet- if you're not there to clean up for a week, he'll see just how sloppy his family is. /:
I would have been a bitch and jus quit doing their laundry and picking up after them. I would take care of my dishes and laundry and wait for him to get home and see the mess. maybe it'll be a wake up call for him bc u being prego, u should not be doing extra work. @babyhorton16
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleep...
if one more person tells me what to do with my child I swear I'm gonna tell THEM where to go. ugh! so tired of that, I don't give a damn who you are. my child is my child.
I'm so happy right now I finally got the courage to call my family back home and tell them whats going on and they are coming to get me and take me home I'm so happy I cant wait to get out of here!!!
Please tell me I'm not the only one whose family has forgotten about them? Today is my birthday and not one person (family or friend not even my husband) has told me happy birthday. My so-called best friend unfriended me on Facebook because I didn't tell her the gender of MY child! I for see lots and lots of tears today. I guess the only good thing is I get to make myself a black cherry jello cake! I just want to cry
Thank you so much @evococa and I know it's not fair, and I love him and I want us to be a family and stay together for this baby, but I'm high risk as it is and they stress me out so much and actually make me hate my life. I come shut myself up in the room and cry almost every day because I hate them that much.. I'm miserable @nessa_475