so I need to vent and get your opinions. My fiancé has a 7 year old daughter. the mother messaged him yesterday and asked if his daughter could come down in may and stay with us for about a month. She lives in Alaska we live in Texas. Im due in may. the mother has not let him talk to his daughter except for the past month. I told him that is a bad time because that's when the baby is due. What would yall think or say. That just got me so mad because the mother is jealous because he's having a baby boy.
You will get plenty of bonding time with and without your (step)daughter there.
Don't think of it like that. Think of it as yall will be bonding as a family of four.
i think it will be good for his daughter to bond with the baby and you aswell.. if he isnt able to be with her much give him the satisfaction to have his family together
it's the fact that the mother is only doing this because she doesn't wasn't her daughter forgotten about and she's jealous. I understand the daughter doesn't know what's going on but the mother wants to take away the little time I have with the baby that moment and days away from me@breee87
I know it will be hard but yall can do it. if yall say no she will think yall don't want her. She is to young to understand having a baby and all that comes with it.
maybe ask for july? its also important that dad gets to bond with his baby, amd you. i know once a baby is here especially if its a first, some want to be alone.