I wish men had no rights to children when they treated the mothers so terribly. Mental and emotional a use is sometimes worst than physical abuse. I wish a judge would see that. @j.echo @brownk2 I want my ex nowhere near my son. He put me through hell and he never wanted a kid so I wish he would just leave us alone and let us be happy. But I know he's plotting some kind of plan to ruin me. He put me through a terrible depression and every time he did he laughed about it. I just want him gone.

The anxiety of dealing with my ex is worse than the anxiety of having a C-section for me. He's manipulative and emotionally abusive and I want him nowhere near my daughter.

Wow. Men can be such assholes. Mine wants a paternity test too. I'm using that as my out. If I have him and don't tell him and "forget" about the test then he can never claim the child and I can get away. Yes he could go to domestics for a test but then he would be put on child support and if he is abusive you an get him in court. Don't let him stress or scare you. A court won't allow a child with an abusive man. Mine was too and I really dare him to test me

I wish, but he accused me of cheating and demanded a paternity test for months. So I know he's going to come at me full force. He controlled my life and I never left the house without him.. I was so dumb to be with him. When I found out I was pregnant he demanded an abortion and ever since then, he's spent all this time harassing me. I'm dreading the day I have to stand in the same room with him and let him see my son. @brownk2

I'm so sorry. I'm feeling the same feelings you are. Praying maybe he just leaves you alone.