So it's been a while since I've updated my soon to be ex husband and I are getting divorced I was able to get a court order to enter the marital residence on Saturday and him and his dear mother had not only packed what they deemed to be mine but changed and redecorated the house to make it look like I never existed. It's sickening. As much as it hurts to think of the type of person he turned out to be in relieved I got out now while my daughter is young and doesn't understand I know she will have questions when she's older and I will be as honest as I can without pointing fingers or being nasty since he will always be her father.