Am I wrong for only wanting visitors in the L&D room after my csection on my own time and in the amount that I'm comfortable with? I don't want to be stressed out and over stimulated when I'm not in the position physically to handle everything. And I don't want anyone coming through to see the baby if I'm sleeping or unconscious or otherwise unaware. My exboyfriend wants his kids there right away and all of his family and I don't even want mine there until I'm ready and we just got in an argument about it.
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He should know, because both of his kids were born by cesarean! @cheeycheey
Men don't understand how csection are serious n wat it can do n just think on how they feel n want but if visitors gonna stress u out then they'd advise u not to have them cuhz stress can bring harm to u
It's upsetting to me because he will give me whatever I want, but I think he feels like I'm doing it to be malicious or something. Now I feel like I'm just overhashing it and he wants me to just drop it. he's agreeing because he doesn't want to fight and I guess I just wanted us on the same page. 😞@candacelouise @cheeycheey
@babyreeves, well than just try and talk to him again. And really explain. Tell him you would love to have his kids be first to meet the baby but... Just after all the craziness is over. You're not keeping anyone away just want to make all is good before they come up! Try and make it about the kids, you don't want them waiting there for hours if it takes longer than expected or if baby has to go to nicu for some strange reason! Reverse psychology ha works every time
U can tell the dr n nurses that u don't want any visitors in the room
It's hard too because I know it's just because they are excited but I have anxiety and control issues and it's hard for me to relinquish control. I want to be cognisant and I also want that time to bond and attempt to BF without everyone overstimulating me. I'm not a first time mom but I didn't have a good experience with the hospital and my visitors with my first and it made me resentful and feel out of control. @candacelouise
@babyreeves, I am the same way! I told my mom not to even tell anyone I'm in labor until my baby boy is here. I don't want to have to stress about someone holding him before me or someone I don't want, end up showing up when I'm/if for some reason I'm asleep or kinda "out of it".
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Does the doctor need consent from both parents to do a circumcision or just one? I don't want my boyfriend and his mother to try and do this behind my back while I'm all groggy
So I'm no where near my due date but we were talking and do you guys think it's wrong that I don't want his mom in the room when I deliver? I only want him , my mom and my grandmother. Me and his mom aren't that close and I'm not really a fan of hers she does stuff that grind my gears but I keep it cordial because that's his mom. I just don't want her in there I don't feel like she needs to be In there am I wrong?
Is It Weird That I Don't Want Other Expecting Moms To Know My Baby's Name??
I Would Be Furious!!!
Just Find Your Own Name For Your Baby, Don't Be A Name Stealer Lmaoooo
I'm Deadass Tho...
but I'm completely different than his ex gf. she wanted drugs and to be doped up and doesn't care one way or another. I'm much more maternal and controlling.