hey guys I have a question. I need your opinions in something.

I've never been a flake like so many people these days, words mean nothing any more

Your not in the wrong at all, we have been friends with these girls for so long when life events happen like this we should be all there for one another and for my friends not to be there out of all things showed me how our friendship was. My friend who apologized, I work with now so she sees my son all the time and has made an effort to be apart of our lives but as im getting older and I have my own family, if someone cant make an effort to talk, see.or communicate with me than im parting from them. I shouldnt have to remind them im here and the sad thing like you, I made the effort when she needed me there I was there for her in a heart beat! Dont feel bad though!

@mrsmoore,

@mantha823,

thank you you're right .. I don't feel so bad now I see my point of view is right. they kept messaging me saying I was being exaggerated and that if she didn't show up to the birth of my baby then I would have a right to be mad. guess what they didn't even congratulate me after knowing I had my baby.. mean while I went to queens like 2 hrs from where I live to see her when no one visited her at the hospital... @des_a_rayy

wow that so messed up... see what I mean like why say something if you don't want to do it??? just don't say anything at all... I don't understand these so called friends... when I say I'm going to do something I do it! or tell them ahead of time I can't or tell them the truth why... some people just don't care. that sucks @kattastrophe

I've never had a friend who didn't disappoint me

I know how you feel, I had a friend growing up, we were solid friends for about 7 years. probably my only best friend. she moved upstate and we still talked occasionally on facebook, we were totally good. one weekend she was supposed to come to town, she told me what date. I waited and didn't hear from her, so I figured she didn't come. then I saw pics of her at the beach hanging out with her saying "it was nice being in my hometown again, hope to come back soon"... I wrote her and said "glad you had a good time in town". she wrote back some bs excuse, I just didn't talk to her again.

I had kinda the same situation myself, both my friends of 16 years didnt show up to my baby shower. One said they forgot and the other didnt even bother. I forgave the one who forgot, she was honest and ended up getting me at least a gift to make up. The other didnt make much of it so im just eh with her. She got engaged and I dont plan on going to her wedding. Thats sad she offered to have it at her house than canceled :/ you dont need a friend like that

lol we all do.....they're just going to continue to disappoint you and ur happiness is key. letting them go is your key to happiness bc they will always bring u down and for a best friend to cancel last minute on your baby shower goes under the who needs enemies when you have friends like that?

thank you but I feel a little sad because they were literally my only friends... everyone else isn't as close to me. Now I'm home alone all the time my husband is always out he hates being home and I just wish I had human interaction lol @mantha823

no I would have cut them off asap to me it seems she did that on purpose, those aren't friends I wouldn't talk to them or text them if they message you why just simply say our life our going in different directions and we grew apart

I feel like you did the right thing.....u don't need that in ur life and those aren't true friends