hey guys I have a question. I need your opinions in something.

recently in November I unfriended my 2 bestfriends. I known them for 16 years and we have had fights before but never to the point where we break our friendship. ..

I wasn't planing on making a baby shower until stephanie asked me if she could do a baby shower for me in her house. I was really happy because I felt like she really wanted to get involved until she cancelled in the last minute. she gave me only one week to find another place. it really got me mad because my whole family told me that she was going to cancel because she always cancels plans on me. she even had me send invitations before she cancelled to all of my friends and family. now thinking that I didn't need to spend so much money on a place I spent it on decorations and cake and food. before I felt like it was okay for her to cancel but with this I found it really offensive. I told my other best friend yesenia about it and she thought it was really messed up too. so I found a hall to do it in it cost us a lot of money but I did it. I actually didn't invite Stephanie but I did expect Yesenia to show up. but she didn't show up. I felt like my two best friends failed me..

6 years ago I also had a small party after my wedding (I only had a civil wedding) so the party was supposed to be for everybody else who wanted to celebrate it with me and I invited my bestfriends. neither of them showed up. they didn't support my idea of getting married at 20 yrs old.

so having them do this to me now I felt like it was time to let them go. do you guys think I did the right thing or did I over-exaggerate?