I have a fear that my kid isn't gonna like me because I have a bad relationship with my mother and can't even begin to think about the heart crushing rejection I'd feel if they didn't like me the way I dislike my mother.
Yeah my dad is the same way but you know what she did whether she agrees with you or not but you can only try and be the best parent possible and at times your kid will dislike the rules or curfew or their punishment but that's part of being a good parent it's the best worse job in the world just do your best and everything will be fine
your kid won't hate you I use to think the same way being I have terrible relationships with both my parents but I see it has a what not to do while raising your baby since you had to experience what you did it makes you wanna strive to avoid your baby feeling what you.did growing up