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babynumberthree
babynumberthree
babynumberthree
This is for mothers that have a few children. my new baby girl is coming up on two months old. She is is my third child. I'm struggling with depression, finding it hard to get motivated to get my day to day routine on track. My fiancée has been trying to help with picking up with the chores around the house. That I can't manage to motivate to get done. He works long hours and comes home to me still in the same setting he left me in. I know I have postpartum depression, along with borderline personality disorder and PTSD. I put my girls first when it comes to my fiancée's days off. I fell horrible that I haven't had time to see a therapist to take the steps to getting any closer to feeling normal. I want to ask any mothers that have gone thru this same thing, how they overcame their depression. And motivated their selves, to be a great mother to their children. I've tried to take my girls outside for play time. But my illness overcomes me with all the things I have to do to get going. And can't even get it done. Same with the little things, around the house. I take care of my girls needs, but fall short when it comes to taking care of myself. Any ideas will be helpful. Thank you.
22.03.2016

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suddymaya
suddymaya
just take each day a day at a time....it's okay to take a few moments to yourself when needed. it will get better! can a friend come over for 2 hours so you can get a nap?
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babynumberthree
babynumberthree
@suddymaya, thank you.
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babynumberthree
babynumberthree
@mel0011, thank you.
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suddymaya
suddymaya
a change of scenery helps. go outside with baby in stroller and walk neighborhood or go to park for at least 30 mins a day
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suddymaya
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suddymaya
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mamaofacountryboy
mamaofacountryboy
Im sorry 😞 if you ever need a friend to talk to just pm me. But I would go talk to a dr
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babynumberthree
babynumberthree
@mel0011, That's what's been making things kinda stressful. We just moved after our daughter was born. So money goes to bills and the girls needs. Like aways I put myself last. With him working long hours, I'm having to stay home without a vehicle. When the depression is at its worst I can't even motivate myself to shower. let alone take a bubble bath. When one girl is content the other one needs me. I breastfeed with is an all day thing. Because I have to eat, drink, pump, feed, repeat.
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