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Angie Ramirez

I came to realize the fact that my fiancé isn't stepping up now and is partying a lot I should let him and while he…

I came to realize the fact that my fiancé isn't stepping up now and is partying a lot I should let him and while he realizes what he's missing out on I'm going to me a role model and do productive things with my self and maybe then he will jump on my wagon and join me , I love him so much and I know he loves me I hope he moves quick because I'm having our son in 3months and I need his help a bit , more like his support , we need him !

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michellevaldez4750

Michelle ValdezМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

and congratulations!

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michellevaldez4750

Michelle ValdezМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Yeah, my husband was so sweet at first. did all the cleaning and was very attentive. now he barely says 2 words to me unless he's trying to get sex lol. but hopefully he'll be there for the important things and be supportive when you need him to be. I sometimes wish we spent more time together but then again we get in each other's nerves if we are together for too long :-\

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angilovesmarti

Angie Ramirez

So we just got engaged Valentine's Day and he's been acting like he doesn't have to try anymore to keep me happy ,is this normal lol I'm kind of worried that I should've said no to his proposal , maybe he would be here with me ? 😩

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michellevaldez4750

Michelle ValdezМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

and I'm sure pregnancy affects the dad's a lot more than they let on. They try to keep up appearances but it's an emotional time for both and everyone deals with stress in their own way.

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michellevaldez4750

Michelle ValdezМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

exactly! my husband is the same way. I have learned to let go a lot over the last 10 years. It's definitely not easy but it definitely works better than trying to control anything he does :-\

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angilovesmarti

Angie Ramirez

Yea and he's very stubborn ! So when I ask him not to do something he feels obligated to go and do it to feel like the alpha but I love him even tho he's annoying at times and I have to deal with it 😕

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michellevaldez4750

Michelle ValdezМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

yes! he's probably just trying to get it all in now, knowing the baby will be here soon might be freaking him out a little. I'm sure it'll be ok :) and i really think you have the right idea, the more you try to force someone to stop or start doing something the more they'll fight it.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!

I am honestly in complete shock rn . Me & my bf really just broke up . & the sad part is I'm the one who did the…

I am honestly in complete shock rn . Me & my bf really just broke up . & the sad part is I'm the one who did the breaking up . I've never seen him so upset . What did I do ? Like I can't even cry . I have no emotion . To know that I just broke up with my boyfriend who I supposedly loved so much . Maybe I didn't love him . Or maybe I couldn't love him the way he needed to be loved. idk all I know is I got tired of being a pain in his ass . I think it's for the best ... He'll find someone who appreciates him one day I just know I'm not that girl . I'm not the one for him . 💔