Any advice for a married first time mommy but yet feels like a single mommy 😞 !?

your not alone in this

he might not help all the time, but when he does it means a lot to him and the baby. say thank you to him when he helps, he might help more.

but its like he never helps wether is emotional,physical nothing @curvymommy

I get it @yzambrano my husband literally did nothing the whole first year after I had my son. he just didn't get babies and didn't get why I was sooooooooooo upset about having to cook,clean, keep a child alive! some men just aren't built that way. I finally sat him down and told him how he was hurting me and he tried to change and improved slowly. he really responds to thank yous and good jobs. have you thought about marriage counseling?

my pediatrician told me to ask them to do specific things and praise them she said they like dogs, u praise them for little things and they do more. I did not take her advice buy it sounds like good advice and I kno that it works for some women