Shani
mommytoeastonjames
Shani·В ожидании первенца

TMI, I'm really sorry to ask this but does anyone know whether its safe to have sex when you've been told you have a subchorionic hematoma? I've been told to avoid sex by the ER doc, and then my OB said to be cautious. So is it safe or no?

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e_n_j_mommy
Claudia Cortez·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

no problem. I know it's hard to stay without it but it's definitely a lot harder to have to lose your baby. just have patience and hopefully your body absorbs it. I'll keep you and your Lil one in my prayers.

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mommytoeastonjames
Shani·В ожидании первенца

@e_n_j_mommy, oh wow. Damn. Thank you so much!!! I would have totally screwed up. I really appreciate you!

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e_n_j_mommy
Claudia Cortez·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

yeah be very careful. I was on pelvic and bedrest as soon as they found mine. just be very careful. drinking cold water helps with easing the cramping.

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e_n_j_mommy
Claudia Cortez·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

the specialist and my ob said absolutely no sex or even stimulation of your nipples. nothing that will make you contract.

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mommytoeastonjames
Shani·В ожидании первенца

@e_n_j_mommy, when I was at the er the doc said it took up a third of my uterus. But when I went for my dating ultrasound the tech didn't mention anything so I asked and she was like , oh yea...its still there. Just be cautious so I was kinda confused

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e_n_j_mommy
Claudia Cortez·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

you don't want to irritate your uterus more. the blood as it is irritates your cervix. you don't want anything to make your sch get bigger. the blood from the sch irritated my uterus causing me to have painless dilation. I was dilating and had no idea so I got an infection and it caused me to go into preterm labor.

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e_n_j_mommy
Claudia Cortez·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

how b ig is your sch?

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mommytoeastonjames
Shani·В ожидании первенца

@e_n_j_mommy, oh no! I'm so sorry. Thanks for the warning. Gosh I hope they explain SCH a bit more at my next appointment.

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e_n_j_mommy
Claudia Cortez·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

no don't have sex. that's how I lost my baby boy last year at 23.4 weeks.

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mommaofginger
krystal·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)

@queenwatson,

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mommaofginger
krystal·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)

by my next appointment it was gone so at least 2-4 weeks it went away. I was 15 weeks along when we saw it at the er which is later than most find out they have it

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mommytoeastonjames
Shani·В ожидании первенца

@vanessa7057, @aimers8031 @hermommy thanks ladies! I was really confused because one doctor seemed super adament and the other was very nonchalant about it. @mommaofginger how long did it take to go away for you?

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mommaofginger
krystal·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)

when I had one with my first daughter I was told I couldn't have sex until it had gone away because it could cause it to bleed again.

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missing268user

I wouldn't it can cause MC especially if the doctors said nk

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aimers8031
Aimee Kramer·Мама дочки (2 года)

@queenwatson, I agree with @vanessa7057

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vanessa7057

If both the Docs said to avoid or be careful, I personally would not have sex

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