listen mommy's I have a 16 yr old neice who is 6 weeks pregnant & due Nov 14th I'm trynna help her out telling her the…

It's scary but I had my son at 15, thankfully I had family and his dad helped for the rest of my school, but I've since gone on to college and he's perfect.. my mom actually scheduled an abortion for me without my consent but I ended up moving in with my dad.. it wasn't easy by any means but it's not impossible.. I see where you're coming from though I wouldn't wish it upon anyone but every baby is a blessing and what she needs most more than anything right now is support, if she's made her decision, just my opinion!

personally I'm 16 and I don't think you'd quit understand what she's saying unless you were in her position. Being a teen mom doesn't mean we won't feel the same way about our children as women that are 20+. It's a still a human being. It might not be healthy for her body but the doctors will make it work! What she needs right now is support just like you! I'm not being rude I'm just giving you the opinion of a 16 year old mother.

We all have our own opinions and beliefs but I do agree she laid down so she needs to take responsibilities. Regardless if she's young or not she knows the difference of right and wrong and this should be her decision

Good for her. I'm glad she is not going to abort that poor baby. How dare you tell her she should. 😡

yes totally agree on what your saying but she has no help...@mamacodi_09n16,

Okay & true that she has no help but her & her bf..neither one has a job & her family not in her life....even though she's in & out of school....not being smart to any of yhu teen mom's @_idekcats

exactly hunni I try my best to help her & direct her in the right path but I'm tired of helping I have my own 3 bbys to look after..can't talk to someone that doesn't wanna listen @amaperalta03

She will figure it out once the baby comes how hard it really is and her freedom to come and go as she pleases will come to a complete stop

I do agree 16 is too soon but she's made her decision so the baby is on its way now and all you guys can do is help support her through the process and hope she's strong enough emotionally, physically, and mentally to handle what's about to come before and after baby is born. And also help guide her and make sure she continues her education so that she can provide the best life possible for her and her baby. I walked across the stage as a single mom to get my degree so it's possible but raising a child especially alone is VERY hard work.

@lyricsmommy616, first off I never told her to abort the bby second off her family tried to tell her I'm only here to help her get through with her pregnancy cuz I went through this once b4 so for yhu to come on my status I think bye get off my status being rude & smart @lyricsmommy616

Exactly why you should leave her alone and let her make this decision on her own. A lot of times we get too involved in people's situations cause we care and want the best for them. But like you said you have your own life to worry about. She will figure things for herself

yes all is right so I left it alone I told her I will help out far as the bby when he or she gets here cuz I know her family not going to so I'm let her make her own decisions @amaperalta03

True what your saying I told her I'm here to help her & make sure she keeps up with everything...in her life but why would I tell her abort a gift from God if I didn't abort any of mine smh ppl need to read b4 they write on my status & thankx alot @jessica0830

@lizzyc09, I know someone that did the same thing. Had her first a 16 second at 17 both gotten taken away to foster care while they were there she has her 3rd at 19 sent her kids away to live with her mom and while they were there had her 4th at 25. She now at 30 can't take care of ANY of them and her family refuses to take them because you made them you take care of them. She's using, neglects her responsibility, and CPS is always at her door. She even has the never to say "no one ever wants to watch my kids so I can go out!" Duh!!!!!. The only one that helps is the 3rd child's father. Like you not saying all 16 year olds are bad parents but some seriously don't get the hint.

@rika25, I didn't get that from your post at all. I just felt like you were disappointed in her for putting herself in this position because her life will be so much harder now and it's frustrating when they don't see it because we have children. We know how hard it is.

yes exactly the truth @jessica0830

it's very frustrating at first. I was pregnant with my first son at 15 had him four months after I turned 16 now im 18 pregnant with my second son. I believe she will get through it and as long as your there to support she will do just fine. she just May need a lil push every now and then

I had my first at 15 she will be just fine just keep trying to guide her

Okay & just what I was trynna say I'm there to help her through all of this thankx alot @theirmommy1416 & yes I will continue to help her through it all @luvmyboldens

Okay & just what I was trynna say I'm there to help her through all of this thankx alot @theirmommy1416 & yes I will continue to help her through it all @luvmyboldens

does she have an account on here@rika25

no but I'm have her make one soon as I talk to her @theirmommy1416

I'm also a teen mom , I understand where your concern is for her cause my mother was feeling the same way about me . but at the end of the day my mother ended up being my biggest supporter, and helped me out with everything. with this being said she she at least sit down an have a talk with her parents and if things don't go good she should make things work for herself by getting a job and saving up for her bundle of joy.

yes thankx alot 😊 this made me feel so much better I been trynna help her...& tell her things about pregnancy. ...but she will get it someday @ryannsmommy

no problem 😊 @rika25

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