I really dont understand what my best friend doesn't get about the fact that i do NOT want to…
I really dont understand what my best friend doesn't get about the fact that i do NOT want to waitress again right now. If I do happen to find a new job, then i want it to be simple like retail. If I puked 15 times a day working at Tim Hortons what makes you think Im going to do any better at a place that smells like more food, and where ill be expected to move fast. Like yeah your lucky somewhere hired you pregnant but i dont see that working out the same way for me. Not every pregnancy is the same. Stop pushing me! sorry for the rant.
Danielle Amelia Thomson·
В ожидании первенца
No trust me you are fine. You should find a job that doesnt require you to move around too much, and give you adequite break times to sit, and breathe. eat, get water.
CAS·
You know your body better then anyone else if you are self aware enough knowing that you can't do certain things that just means you are a good mom and you probably be better off in the long run. I'm a waitress and there's no way I will be able to continue when I concieve because I struggle now. whereas we had servers running around 8 months pregnant lol so yeah everyone is different. you shouldn't be shamed for knowing your limits.
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (16 нед.)
Shes just been pushing it since i got fired from Tim Hortons for my uncontrollable morning sickness and yeah its dying down but i still cant even stand the smell of bacon cooking or meats. I rather be at a place where it doesnt have 50 million different smells all the time right now. plus im moving soon, dont want to get a job over here then quit because my boyfriend and I only have one car and he'll be working 4:30 am til noon and hes my babysitter so theres only a small 9 hour window i have to work with since hes also the only one with his license right now. @daniellethomson
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (16 нед.)
I was a server at a bar when i found out i was expecting and i quit the day i found out because it was so stressful. we were understaffed taking 10 or 11 tables at a time. yeah i was making good money just realized i cant put myself under that much stress when i just had a miscarriage 5 months prior to getting pregnant with this one.
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (16 нед.)
@bebefever94,
CAS·
You did the right thing :) I'm sure you will find something retail isn't that bad clothing wise. if you have any hobbies look into jobs that involve them. as long as you go to a job with a strong maternity plan and express that to them most businesses don't usually have a problem hiring expecting mothers especially if the due date is a bit away.
CAS·
Or you can always self employee. it may be a little hard at first but like I am self employee as a full time private nanny. I make decent money doing so. and I have it in my employer agreement that after giving birth I can bring my child to work as long as it doesn't effect the Care of the other children. so I'll save on child care too and this job is so laid back!