So my s/o really likes unisex names . I am not a fan. what do you think? Also is Aspen a boy or girl name. We looked it…
So my s/o really likes unisex names . I am not a fan. what do you think? Also is Aspen a boy or girl name. We looked it up and it says it can be both . I feel it is more masculine. He likes it either way. Not sure how I feel about a girl named aspen. Also we do not know what to do about the last name since we are not married and will probably not be getting married anytime soon. and when I say soon I mean like not in the next 5 years.
newmommy72816·
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i think unless there is some extreme circumstances and you and the father don't get along its okay to take the mothers last name but otherwise it should be the fathers name my parents were never married and I had my daddys name until I got married
Meghan ·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I think the baby should always have their fathers last name never some other man's name. To me that's extremely disrespectful.
babymay2016·
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I love the name Aspen for a girl! That is an awesome and very unique name. I wouldn't consider that masculine at all. And as far as the last name, if you're comfortable with just changing it in the future when you do get married, I would definitely say to use your last name for now. I would weigh the possibility of how the name you pick sounds with his last name also, but it is much easier to change it later on than to change it back if you don't end up getting married. Most likely you wouldn't have the right to change it anymore and your baby would forever have his last name. I'm not saying you won't end up together but seriously a million different things could happen and if it were me I would name my child with my last name, and then when you do get married it is simple to change your last name and your child. Lets say on the off chance you don't get married, your baby has his last name, and you end up marrying someone else and want to change your babies last name to your new last name... you have to have your baby's fathers permission and most likely you won't be able to change it, unless he does sign and he is also signing his rights away. Most men wouldn't agree to that and you would have different last names forever. I really thought I would choose my baby's fathers last name (which I like better anyways) but in thinking all of this it is so much easier in any situation for my son to have my last name until when/if we ever were to get married.
Julia·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
my friend named his daughter aspen and it fits her. I see it as girl's name. but to each their own