Is it bad that I don't consider my step dad as my baby's grandpa, when someone calls him grandpa I swear I hate it and I…

@courtneywarner, yeah it most likely will which is why I haven't said anything yet I just don't know how I would say it to her.

@emeliaday, well if he was like that I would have consider him as a grandparent and wouldn't have ask the question. He hasn't seem interested or anything he's never once asked me about her or offered to get anything for her nothing at all.

Thanks @swtlilangl

Totally understanding your choice but it may cause some tension so talk to your mom and let her know how you feel so she not blindsided

Lol my biological father won't even talk to me so I don't even consider him anything at all @twinscomingsoon

Well said @courtneywarner

He's been in my life for 6 years, No he differently doesn't treat me like if I was he's own he doesn't really talk to me only if he needs something or needs to find my mom or to check on my little sister. He treats my mom well which is why I don't say anything because I have before and my mom thought that I didn't want to see her happy . He has not bought anything for my baby or doesn't seem interested but says he wants to be called grandpa and I don't want that. @courtneywarner

I think a step parent deserves every recognition. It's not an easy role to take on and kids can have extra grandparents. It's all about the love and value added to their life. If he loves her like a grandchild why stand in the way of that?

I'm the opposite. My biological father won't be grandpa. He sent us some baby stuff and my husband said grandpa Chris hooked it up, and I was like ugh he's just Chris lol

This can go either way! How long has he been in your life? Does he treat yall like his own? Would he do anything for you before himself? Does he treat your mother well? Im asking all this cause my grandfather married again and we and my kids call her granny cause she treats us as that. She didn't come to replace my grandma but she came to love us as she did and I promise you in Heaven she smiles!! Just my opinion but let it be he will love the kids just like your real father will! Just an extra grandpa to spoil the baby!!!

Well I'm not that close to him, but he swears he sees me as a daughter which I don't believe at all and my mom swears he's like a dad to me but he's really not . I've never liked him and now I just hate him @swtlilangl

I guess it depends how close you are to him. Mine was more of a dad to me growing up and it's just an extra person to love your child. Grandparents are a blessing to children. I have tons.