Warning, I'm ranting 😂😂 (it's a long one, grab a cuppa ☕️)
So I have a "friend" who is quite self centred and you can't have a conversation with her without her banging on about herself and what's going on in her life.. Like she doesn't even ask if you're okay, she'll just message me randomly and tell me when her and her OH have had a tiff etc. Anyways ever since we had our 12 week scan she kept making little comments saying it was a boy because we already have one she was purposely saying it to try and annoy us (you know in that sarcastic tone of voice that's not even humorous in the slightest) even though we obviously wouldn't have minded. Anyways, the day we went for our Anomaly scan she asked me to let her know the sex and was all chatty literally a couple hours before, obviously she was hoping I told her boy so she could basically say "ha, told you so"! She actually did that on one of our mutual friends announcement on Facebook.. The friend she did that too is currently pregnant with her second boy.. I thought it was quite bitchy. So anyways she's just given birth to her second child which is also a second daughter.. When my partner told her the sex pretty much straight after we got out the scan (cause she asked us to let her know) she didn't even sound happy for us she just made a sarcastic bitchy comment like "ah just you wait until she starts screeching and screaming" now sorry BITCH but I already have a child and it doesn't matter what bits they have between their legs they all fucking screech and scream.. It's called being a child!! My son squeals and screeches and whines like any other child that's ever lived... Ever! So yeah that really pissed me off and to then top it off she hasn't spoken to me since Wednesday (she's updated her status about 8+ times since then so has had the time) and she didn't even "like" any of mine or my partners announcements. Like can anyone understand why I'm pissed off at this.. She's meant to be my friend she knew it took us 3 years to conceive our son and to be blessed with a second is amazing let alone being blessed with one of each sex and she just can't be happy for us simply because she's bitter and jealous that she didn't get the boy she wanted when she fell pregnant again!! She's just been interjecting her shitty little comments like she knows everything about having a girl.. But it's okay if she gets pregnant again and it's a boy I'm gunna do the same back to her! Or I'm just gunna flip my lid tell her exactly what I think and block her from my life completely.. Like what friend huh?!
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Yep, think I've now realised how fake she is.. Even on my sons birthday we got a cake and cut it up etc and to one of our other friends she bitched that we could have given her a bigger slice.. Well bitching behind our backs aint gunna make your slice bigger bitch.. Just say it! Definitely not gunna waste any more time with her.. Xx @lissy22
I'd just ignore her Hun I had some really two faced so called friends who ditched me the minute I started dating my oh coz there's a big age gap between us turns out they were all super jealous coz he's so hot people can be pathetic don't waste your time with fakes you know who you're real friends are x
It's really weird though cause you should be happy for your friends but had I been having another boy she's have purposely tried to annoy me and banging on about it as if it would be a bad thing if that makes sense.. I had to get all that off my chest cause I'm making my poor OHs ears bleed lmao.. Definitely think she needs to grow up though xx @suzie31
Sounds to me she's got jealousy issues. She needs to grow up x
@shanttc, I don't blame you! I can imagine if anything it's a relief! Xx @lollipopscarl awe thank you, we was hoping for a girl of course would have been happy with a boy too so I definitely feel super lucky :) it's the way she's just turned spiteful with it.. If she wants a boy so badly then she should have another baby lol.. Not take it out on her friends.. Awe thank you Hun.. Congratulations on your second princess :) she definitely needs to grow up lol xx
I would have loved one of each you're so lucky but at the same time it's doesnt matter I'm having my second girl and I'm over the moon as long as a baby is healthy it shouldn't matter she sounds like she needs to re-evaluate her priorities, congratulations ☺
I know, never spoke to her again and it really wasn't any loss to me so I'd say your 'friend' needs to grow up or just cut her off xx
@shanttc, wow! What a cheeky bitch!! She wanted the gossip when it was convenient for her by the looks of it.. I'd have told her I didn't want people like her in my life any ways and that she was doing me a favour lol.. Xx
@jod1303, that's exactly it, she's annoyed because she's got two girls and not one of each.. Not that it should even matter and she has to try and make me feel bad about it.. Trying to make me not enjoy it.. But I will.. I think I'm going to.. Xx
when I was pregnant with my little boy my best friend at the time was always wanting to know what was going on and even made my own mum leave the delivery room to come and see me when I was labour and I never heard from her and see her after that then find out from mutual friend that apparently she thought she was too young to have friends with kids yet had the cheek to make my mum leave on the day? fuming didn't even cover it!
sounds like cutting her off is the best solution. i h8 people like that, because theyre unhappy in life they try 2 ruin other peoples. chin up hun xx
No, you're right, I don't.. I'm really on the verge.. One more strike and she's out kinda feeling xx @mandybearx
My best mate told me to just block her (they don't get on anyways).. It's like she treats me like a friend when it suits her.. Just annoyed me how she's been towards me and the sarcastic, snide remarks.. I've kept my mouth shut cause I really cbf for all the agro but so needed to vent that out.. Even my OH said its cause she's bitter.. But she should be happy she's been blessed with 2 children regardless of their sexes.. Plenty of women and men out there that'd be more than happy with that! Xx @jod1303
You don't need people like that in your life!! Xx
doesnt sound like a friend to me. jealousy is never a good thing. you show her that her snidy remarks dont bother u and its not about points scoring she sounds like she needs2 grow up xx
That is so immature :(