I've told him I thought that was part of it. He said that's not it at all. He just doesn't ever want me to look back and regret our wedding. He got married the first time because they had a baby together so he doesn't want me or anyone else to think of day that's why we were getting married.

do you think he doesnt want to get married

He knows... I have and always was super honest with him about everything. I think it bothers me so bad I fear with 5 kids there will always be an excuse to put it off even more. We've had a hell of a past made it through way more than most could. We both have sons from previous a daughter together and now twin boys on the way. It's just so frustrating and my hormones aren't helping me right now

you should let him kno that...my aunt was 34 weeks when she got married and her wedding pics were beautiful

He said he knows I will regret looking back and being big and pregnant. He has been married before I haven't. He got married at the courthouse. So I think a big part is he wants it to be perfect cause he thinks it's what I want And he's convinced it has to be different than him and his ex or its starting us off on a bad foot. I honestly don't care I love him and have for 10 years going from friends to dating to everything now. I'm ready to start the rest of our lives. He may be right but at the same time I really don't care who's there or where it happens as long as at the end of the day we are married.

why?