Is it wrong of me to not want any family and friends to post pictures of my son without permission…
Is it wrong of me to not want any family and friends to post pictures of my son without permission from me? My fiancé thinks I'm overreacting when I get mad that his mom posts my ultrasound pictures and I'm like it's rude cuz that's my body, my son, and my pictures I haven't even posted on Facebook. We aren't married and he's in no rush to get married so why can't I be asked if his family can post pictures of my son when he can just up and leave at any point in time and they turn around and make me look like the bad person in this again?0
Tasharra·
Мама сына-младенца
no it's not your the parent
Perlita·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (37 нед.)
you can say n do wateva you want cus that's ur baby not there's!
Kate·
В ожидании первенца
I told my SO nobody is posting pictures of our daughter before me! And it's funny I posted a picture of my SO as a kid on fb as a TBT pic as a kid and got bitched at yet his mom goes and shares a picture of Arabellas ultrasound pic saying she's going to be a grandma ain't that the same thing
Amber·
В ожидании первенца
Absolutely not. I'm going be the same way. No one is allowed to post any pictures until I do! It just makes sense.
Brittany·
В ожидании первенца
Omg I feel you girl I went thru that with my fiancés mom my first ultra sound pic I sent to her and she put it on Facebook man I was so pissed off!! And I said something to him and he understood and said something to her! Now I don't even send them to her anymore I just saw them to get in persons..
Lindsey·
Мама двоих (3 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Ok cuz I am always getting bitched at for overreacting on any thing to do with ultrasound pictures and how I want the hospital to go and who I want there. And he gets mad but if I do anything he takes his mom side with any of it and it's just aggravating cuz my family understands and his family does to except for his mom and she thinks she can do whatever.
Madison·
В ожидании первенца
I've already made a rule that no one can post a picture of my son without my permission and they must put their name on it (kind of like a watermark). my husband's mom seems not to give a flying fuck about anyone so I luckily don't have the exact problem you do, but my mom would do what she pleases if I didn't have rules in place to protect my child. also I've made it clear that I will be the first one to post any photo of him when he gets here and the first one to announce that he made it into the world.
missing329user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I was like that with my first pregnancy but now I don't really care. It's not that big of a deal and I feel selfish for ever feeling that way. Imagine when you're a grandparent and you want to post a picture but you can't. It would hurt your feelings. I think it's more of a first time mom thing. I was very selfish with my twins.
missing201user·
it is your child i do not know his family or him. however if he isn't involved doesn't necessarily mean his family wouldn't want to be. I would talk to her about it. I've asked my father not to and he respects that wish.
missing201user·
@i.xvi.mmxvi, my sister does that to me and our dad when ever she gets mad at us. she uses her kids as pawn. if you anger her she will not allow you contact with them.
missing329user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@jadestarlight, It's rude to be selfish with your child. Why keep them away from people who love them dearly?
missing201user·
@i.xvi.mmxvi, I agree in my sisters case. I sadly just cut ties with her because I'm sick of the mind games. in doing so cuts them with her children which hurts.
Lindsey·
Мама двоих (3 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Well I am open to family posting pics and I have let some of them but that's if they have asked my fiancés mom is always in trouble with the law and I don't want her posting he pictures because of the people she associates with because I don't want anything to happen to my son.