Did any of you ladies who already have a baby let anyone come in before they had the baby when they were at the hospital…
Did any of you ladies who already have a baby let anyone come in before they had the baby when they were at the hospital but still not want anyone but your so in the room when the baby is actually coming? if so how did that go?!
Stephanie Valentine·
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I haven't had my baby yet but if labor is long enough I'm going to allow people to come in and "hangout" with me before it's time to push or the pain become unbearable but when it's time to push only my SO will be in the room and everyone seems okay with it
priscilla·
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@stephnagy2 this is what I'd like to do to but I don't want people to disrespect me and not leave when it's time so im kinda second guessing it
Stephanie Valentine·
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well I would hope that they would respect your wishes and if they don't the nurses can always make them leave whenever you want.
priscilla·
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@stephnagy2 I'd like to let some family come visit before but every time I say something about only me and my so being in the room she says your gonna be in so much pain your not gonna care who's in there so if I do that I feel she'll just stay and not leave
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
you can let the nurses know that at a certain point in your labor process you want everyone but your so out and rhea will make them leave, pretty sure if they refuse they would be escorted out of the hospital all together
Stephanie Valentine·
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it doesn't matter how much pain I'm in I don't want anyone else in there seeing all of that
priscilla·
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@sarahdrew I think im just gonna wait till the day comes and see how I feel when I first go to the hospital
priscilla·
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@stephnagy2 that's what I said!!
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
that works, I had family in my room, but I had a c-section and only my husband was allowed in, they told me I could have someone else come into recovery, but I said no just me and my husband and our baby girl... we took that 45 minutes (my husband ended up going to eat with my family lol) to bond with her
jenny·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I had my family and fiancé and honestly I can't imagine not having my family there. What a moment and as much pain as i was in, knowing I wasn't alone and was experiencing this amazing moment with my family well it was priceless! ❤️❤️I ended up having an emergency csection at the end so just my fiancé was allowed.
priscilla·
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@sarahdrew I plan on having some alone time for atleast an hour before I allow visitors
priscilla·
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@never2late I'd like then to be there just not in the actual giving labor part, so hoping the nurse will be allowed to tell them to leave
Autumn·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (34 нед.)
My close family and his close family all hung out in my room, but when I got checked to see if I was dilated to 10 they left out of the room as planned and it was just me and my so until the baby arrived