@tiffanybrazeal, thank you!!!!😊

@armstrongsmommy, of course honestly if yoy need to talk I'm here I'm new to the whole military life and all that only been doing it a year. don't stress it will work out if that's gods plan for you! :)

@morris0309, @cheche27, thank you for your encouragement! ☺

@tiffanybrazeal, oh thank you so much for your advice and your truth, this really helped me a lot, all of what you said was really appreciate. I'm greatful you took your time in sharing your personal story god and bad, I know everyone's story is different and have there own opinions but I'm going to push forward and try to be strong because you yourself are getting through. Thank you again!

it's the hardest relationship you'll ever have! you'll feel like your alone and you and him will fight over the silliest things when he's away but when you guys reunite it's the best thing in the world! it's hard being a mom or mommy to be because you feel like your a single mom! every time he leaves or deployment or training it doesn't get easier ever and if anyone tells you it does they are on something or they never had to deal it themselves! it's hard to talk to others about it because they don't understand! but I'm telling you find a army wife your age or a few that work with your husband or close its so much easier when you have someone who is going through the same same thing as you. people will think your doing it for all the wrong reasons (money or to be able to say your with a military man) no matter even if you've been with your husband before he joined. there will always be that one person that will hate you not because of who you are but because your a army wife. not alot of people have respect for wives of military men. also if you want to show off by getting I heart my blank shirt or the blank wife on your car, do it! but be careful with things like that because people are crazy and the world isn't safe! don't let anyone tell you your wrong for how you show your love for your husband and also don't let them tell you your wrong for being sad and for not wanting to get out of bed for days when he's gone! but even though there's so many things that suck about being in a relationship with a military man its the man your with that makes everything amazing! also the military life is so different it might be easier for you to get used to but for me omgosh it's been so difficult to get used to the drs and hospitals and how they do things.

So far I've been a military wife for two years n yes it get difficult n lonely at times but we have to stay strong n support our spouse... I think it was the best decision we made for him to join cause we have a reliable source of income n other benefits. As time goes by you will get the hang of it

Honestly it will be an amazing foundation for you an your family. You as his wife just have to be just as strong to ensure the experience with him. I'm in the army for two years now