Every since we found baby # 2 is a boy. My SO and I have been back and forth on trying for a girl, I was scared it will be another boy, so I just wanted this to be it. So after a very long talk we both agreed we would give it one more try. Well last night he says I don't think I want to try again because I don't want another boy (this one will make his third boy). Now I am over here like I wish you would have told me this 30 days ago so I could have signed necessary paperwork for my secondary insurance to pay for tubal. Men sometimes they are worse than women when it comes to decisions!
No you are lucky I had a tubal and it was the worst mistake I have ever made... not because we changed our minds about having more children but because of all the side effects they don't tell you about
@cnewell23, just give it some time... I am in the same boat you are boy 2 almost here and we talk all the time about trying for a girl. I'm over here scared and he's over there all ready for it. If it's 3 boys, at least you know how to raise boys that's what he tells me. Just give it time and see how he feels when the baby is a year old.
3 beautiful boys wanting a girl
I was just wondering did anyone use any gender swaying methods and if so did they work? I just had my 3rd son in sept. I already want another one and I would be happy with another boy as long as he was healthy, but I think deep down I want a little girl. I already starting trying to convince dh to have one more, but this would def be my last shot at a girl.
Mommas of baby boys... Would it be weird to shower/ take a bath with my son? We both are in need of one but I don't have the energy to take one then give him one 😒 and if so what's the appropriate age to stop?
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Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I really need to vent I really don't know what to do so as you might know I went to the hospital on Thursday to see why I was bleeding and having contractions well I found out I have an std please don't judge me I thought I was happily married we have been together for 8 years we have 3 boys and 1 on the wAy my question is what would you guys do in my situation I have my house but I don't work and well no one will hire me being preggo please help me I feel so alone I can't talk to anyone becaus...
@karnamarie, and That's why I'm choosing not to tie my tubes. I had enough problems and issues with the iud and implanon. So I'm afraid of what that might do.