Every since we found baby # 2 is a boy. My SO and I have been back and forth on trying for a girl, I was scared it will be another boy, so I just wanted this to be it. So after a very long talk we both agreed we would give it one more try. Well last night he says I don't think I want to try again because I don't want another boy (this one will make his third boy). Now I am over here like I wish you would have told me this 30 days ago so I could have signed necessary paperwork for my secondary insurance to pay for tubal. Men sometimes they are worse than women when it comes to decisions!
No you are lucky I had a tubal and it was the worst mistake I have ever made... not because we changed our minds about having more children but because of all the side effects they don't tell you about
@cnewell23, just give it some time... I am in the same boat you are boy 2 almost here and we talk all the time about trying for a girl. I'm over here scared and he's over there all ready for it. If it's 3 boys, at least you know how to raise boys that's what he tells me. Just give it time and see how he feels when the baby is a year old.
@karnamarie, and That's why I'm choosing not to tie my tubes. I had enough problems and issues with the iud and implanon. So I'm afraid of what that might do.